Everyone, whether they like to admit it, has had or wanted a fuck buddy.  It’s a very simple concept: you get horny, you give them a call, you spend a night of passion and lovemaking together, and the next day you trot off as if nothing happened.  Perfect type of relationship for a girl who wants to keep her options open.  But is it really?

As females, we seem to have more emotions, hormonal issues ect. that keep us mentally attached to men we sleep with.  They, however, don’t seem to have that problem.  They seem to be able to go out, get smashed, bring any girl who’ll go with them home and screw them without a second thought.  While some women try and do that, in my experience, it doesn’t work the same way.  One night stands won’t leave a lot of women attached, but continuous sexual encounters with the same man is bound to leave an emotional mark.  But what happens with the man doesn’t feel the same way?  We can’t just turn off the emotional attachment we develop over time, and most of the time we end up trying to ignore it, hoping that one day maybe your fuck buddy will one day realize he is meant to be with just you.  Unfortunately, that doesn’t happen a lot, and you either have to realize this and let go, or prepare for heartbreak.

So I ask; are fuck buddies really all they are cracked up to be?

Til Next Time,
xoxo
Me